Love
Love research continues
From previous two cases, it seems that love is really a terrible thing. We must stay away from it as far as possible. Let us see one more example.-
One of my friends once fell in love with this girl. After going out together for some times, my friend confessed his love to that girl. Their conversation went like this.-
'I think I am in love with you,'My friend said to that girl.
'Oh really,' girl replied smiling.
'Yes, I think I am a different person I am with you. Life seems more interesting when I am with you'
She kept smiling, not saying anything
'So? what do you say about it, 'My friend continued
'So what?' She looked amused by my friend's confession.
'I mean do you love me too?'
'Of course, I love you too'
My friend's irritation increased.
'Yaar, I have put my heart forward to you, and you are taking it so lightly. I am serious'
'It is not like that, I am also serious. I love you, I have loved you since I saw you first time.'
Now my friend was more confused than irritated.
'Are you pulling my leg now, first you stay totally indifferent to my confession of love, then you say you loved me since you saw me first time'
'No no, seriously, I love you, but it is not such a shocking thing for me, I have fallen in and out of love so many times, it happens. love is not something to be taken seriously'
My friend did not understand the concept of what the girl was saying. But he was happy to be with her and enjoyed her company. They were more comfortable with each other after the confession. They stayed together for sometime, till she had to go abroad. They kept in touch through mails, Facebook and occasional phone calls. After some time, my friend fell in love with another girl. He told me that he loved both of them. First girl also knew it and was happy for them.
These examples may not be from real life, but are very well inspired from real life events, and I am sure most of us will be able to relate such events where someones misses a loved one so badly that he is not able to love anyone else in the world and where someone who is not able to get the loved one looks to end his/her life. But very few with be able to relate to this example where both loved each other and even if they are not together they were happy. This one is rare and strange. Isn't it?
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Sunday, 20 January 2013
Friday, 18 January 2013
Free Love 2
Love
Continuing my research on love. Lets us take another example.
A beautiful girl once fell in love with a boy who was her friend. She felt very good with him. Very soon, they started meeting regularly, went to movies together, were always seen together everywhere they went. They both confessed their love to each other. Both were very happy with each other. Boy took very good care of her, he made sure she was happy. He felt protective about her. She sometimes called him her "Bodyguard" in fun. Although they were already together, but now their relation was defined. They were now Boyfriend-Girlfriend. This definition of relationship gave both of them more rights over each other. Now they had to meet everyday, and if not meeting they had to talk everyday, especially at night.
One day, it was girl's last exam of the final year. She was busy whole day with studying and exam, could not call or meet the boy. As it was her last exam of college, her college friends made a plan to go out and have fun to celebrate. She went out with her friends for a party and had a great time with them. With party and friends, she forgot to call the boy and did not even check her phone. When she checked her phone next morning, there were many missed calls and texts from the boy, who obviously missed her. She immediately called him and apologized. Boy was furious, but understood after some time. Slowly with time the boy's possessiveness increased, since he loved the girl so much that he could not spend a minute without her.
But it was not same with girl, she did not like his possessiveness and decided to end their relationship. She wanted to remain friends, but did not want them to be as Girlfriend-Boyfriend, but boy did not accept. This had hurt him badly, he called the girl many times but she did not take his calls, as he was bent on continuing the relationship.
How can she leave him, who loved her more than anyone in this world, he thought. He tried a lot to convince her to come back to him. But she had moved on. Finally day came when he decided to end his life. He did not find life worth living without the girl in it and committed suicide.
Now, the boy loved girl more than anyone else in the world, and even ended his life for her. And his love actually not only hurt him, but took his life? so is love dangerous? If anyone is madly in love, we should stop him/her, because it may kill? Why did the "heart-less" girl let him die, for they once loved?
to be continued...
Continuing my research on love. Lets us take another example.
A beautiful girl once fell in love with a boy who was her friend. She felt very good with him. Very soon, they started meeting regularly, went to movies together, were always seen together everywhere they went. They both confessed their love to each other. Both were very happy with each other. Boy took very good care of her, he made sure she was happy. He felt protective about her. She sometimes called him her "Bodyguard" in fun. Although they were already together, but now their relation was defined. They were now Boyfriend-Girlfriend. This definition of relationship gave both of them more rights over each other. Now they had to meet everyday, and if not meeting they had to talk everyday, especially at night.
One day, it was girl's last exam of the final year. She was busy whole day with studying and exam, could not call or meet the boy. As it was her last exam of college, her college friends made a plan to go out and have fun to celebrate. She went out with her friends for a party and had a great time with them. With party and friends, she forgot to call the boy and did not even check her phone. When she checked her phone next morning, there were many missed calls and texts from the boy, who obviously missed her. She immediately called him and apologized. Boy was furious, but understood after some time. Slowly with time the boy's possessiveness increased, since he loved the girl so much that he could not spend a minute without her.
But it was not same with girl, she did not like his possessiveness and decided to end their relationship. She wanted to remain friends, but did not want them to be as Girlfriend-Boyfriend, but boy did not accept. This had hurt him badly, he called the girl many times but she did not take his calls, as he was bent on continuing the relationship.
How can she leave him, who loved her more than anyone in this world, he thought. He tried a lot to convince her to come back to him. But she had moved on. Finally day came when he decided to end his life. He did not find life worth living without the girl in it and committed suicide.
Now, the boy loved girl more than anyone else in the world, and even ended his life for her. And his love actually not only hurt him, but took his life? so is love dangerous? If anyone is madly in love, we should stop him/her, because it may kill? Why did the "heart-less" girl let him die, for they once loved?
to be continued...
Thursday, 17 January 2013
Free Love 1
Love
Hmm, so we are talking about love. The love has many dictionary translations. The one I am discussing here is the "Romantic Attraction" part of love. It is the feeling of affection for someone. It is also said that this feeling called love brings the fear of loosing the person you love.
Let us take an example of love.-
There was once a person, who loved his wife a lot. One day his wife died. He cried day and night in the memory of his wife. He badly missed her. He was so depressed after her death that he did not like to do anything at all. He kept lying in his bed all day. He did not like to talk to anyone. Sometimes even his weeks went by without talking to anyone. This began to affect his complete life. His family and friends also got affected by his indifferent behavior. His friends and family advised him to get remarried as he was young and had all his life ahead. But he refused to remarry as he still missed his wife.
So what is your opinion about his extreme love for his wife? Is it true love?
to be continued...
Hmm, so we are talking about love. The love has many dictionary translations. The one I am discussing here is the "Romantic Attraction" part of love. It is the feeling of affection for someone. It is also said that this feeling called love brings the fear of loosing the person you love.
Let us take an example of love.-
There was once a person, who loved his wife a lot. One day his wife died. He cried day and night in the memory of his wife. He badly missed her. He was so depressed after her death that he did not like to do anything at all. He kept lying in his bed all day. He did not like to talk to anyone. Sometimes even his weeks went by without talking to anyone. This began to affect his complete life. His family and friends also got affected by his indifferent behavior. His friends and family advised him to get remarried as he was young and had all his life ahead. But he refused to remarry as he still missed his wife.
So what is your opinion about his extreme love for his wife? Is it true love?
to be continued...
Tuesday, 15 January 2013
Free Love
Love.
I am sure anything I will write about love will already be written/thought by someone somewhere for it is one of the most studied topics of the world.
Most of us are taught that love is to be taken very seriously and one in love may get hurt. One may love persons, things or places or times. With love comes the fear of loosing that person, place or thing whom we love. In case we do lose, we are hurt, get depressed and in some case do not like anything else in this world for some time.
If this all is true, it is advisable that one should not love at all! why should we love when we have risk of getting hurt or depressed?
to be continued...
I am sure anything I will write about love will already be written/thought by someone somewhere for it is one of the most studied topics of the world.
Most of us are taught that love is to be taken very seriously and one in love may get hurt. One may love persons, things or places or times. With love comes the fear of loosing that person, place or thing whom we love. In case we do lose, we are hurt, get depressed and in some case do not like anything else in this world for some time.
If this all is true, it is advisable that one should not love at all! why should we love when we have risk of getting hurt or depressed?
to be continued...
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